
David Mayes
Experienced UK counsellor for life challenges
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Experienced UK counsellor for life challenges
Start with David MayesLicensed · Professional · Cancel Anytime
David Mayes is a UK-licensed talking therapies counsellor with eight years of clinical experience working with a wide range of concerns. He supports people presenting with depression, stress and anxiety, substance misuse and other addictions including porn, bereavement and loss, relationship and sexuality difficulties, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues.
He is comfortable working with alternative sexual and lifestyle choices and is open to clients who identify with kink communities. As a mixed-race counsellor, he brings an informed awareness of racial, cultural and identity matters, including particular insight into Chinese and South East Asian experiences.
David has provided both short- and long-term therapy in a variety of settings, including face-to-face work within IAPT, the NHS and a forensic (prison) environment, as well as through online and telephone sessions, with clients both within the UK and internationally.
His therapeutic manner is welcoming, friendly and approachable, aimed at helping clients feel at ease so they can explore their concerns. He works from a humanistic orientation, valuing genuineness and empathy, and emphasises polite, respectful treatment of each person’s individuality. David aims to empower clients to make the changes they want and to achieve meaningful, lasting progress, and he welcomes contact from those who would like to work alongside him.
Many people ask whether remote therapy can make a real difference. For a number of common concerns - including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties and navigating life changes - online therapy has been shown to be comparable to traditional in-person treatment for achieving meaningful outcomes.
A major benefit of online work is flexibility. Clients can choose how to meet - via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or in-app messaging - which can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life or to continue care across locations.
All therapists are licensed professionals, and it is possible to change therapists if a different fit is needed. For many people, remote therapy provides a practical and effective way to access support for everyday mental health and relationship concerns.