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Valerie Harmer

Holistic Jungian therapist specializing in trauma and relationships

About

My name is Val Harmer and as a Solution Focused Therapist my role is to help you make sense of why you are struggling and to help you understand what may have caused the problem and what is keeping it going. Whilst I can’t wave a magic wand I can help you to see why you may be getting stuck and what might need to change for you to move forward and get back on track. Solution Focused therapy is collaborative, we work together to identify and make the changes needed to help break unhelpful cycles of behaviour. Therapy sessions are confidential and you can trust me to fully listen to you without judgment. I will ask you a lot of questions, so that we can really become aware of all of the different parts of your problem and you can count on me to give you respectful feedback and guidance about your situation.
I work with both individuals and couples with a wide range of relationship and emotional problems and mental health difficulties like anxiety, low self esteem, anger, ocd, phobias, depression, bereavement and relationship issues. My approach is pragmatic and change focused and I offer both brief and longer term work depending on your goals for therapy. using a combination of Solution Focused therapies like BA (Behavioural Activation), CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), SFBT (Solution Focused Brief Therapy) and SFH (Solution Focused Hypnotherapy). Study and qualifications – over the past 9 years I have studied Counselling and CBT Psychotherapy to Post Graduate Level at the University of South Wales, completed a Diploma in Solution Focused Hypnotherapy at the Clifton Practice in Bristol and trained as a Bereavement Counsellor with CRUSE.
As a member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) I abide by their code of conduct and guidelines for clinical practice. This includes regular supervision of my practice, and a commitment to continuing and updating my professional development.

Years Experience: 9
Location: United Kingdom, United Kingdom
Accepting New Clients: Yes
Gender: Female
Accepting international clients: No
NPI Number:
Credentials:
Languages Spoken: English
Licenses: BACP #260348 exp 2026-05-27
List of Specialties: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Grief, Self esteem, Coping with life changes, LGBT, Family, Trauma and abuse, Eating, Sleeping, Parenting, Anger, Career, Depression, Coaching, ADHD, Female therapist, Gay, Older, Non-religious, Liberal therapist
Where Can You Work With This Therapist: BetterHelp
Therapist of color: No
Communication options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging

Valerie Harmer

Practical, solution-focused therapy
  • Brief and long-term help
  • Works with individuals and couples
  • BACP member and trained

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About

Valerie Harmer is a Solution Focused Therapist who helps people make sense of why they are struggling, to identify possible causes and to recognise what is maintaining the difficulty. While she does not offer quick fixes, she supports clients to see where they may be getting stuck and what needs to change for them to move forward and regain direction.

Her work is collaborative – solution focused therapy involves working together to pinpoint practical changes that can break unhelpful cycles of behaviour. Valerie listens without judgment, asks many questions to explore the different aspects of a problem, and offers respectful feedback and guidance throughout the process. Therapy sessions are confidential.

She works with both individuals and couples on a broad range of relationship and emotional difficulties, including anxiety, low self-esteem, anger, OCD, phobias, depression, bereavement and relationship issues. Her approach is pragmatic and change-focused, and she offers both brief and longer-term therapy depending on each client’s goals.

Valerie draws on a combination of solution-focused approaches alongside behavioural activation (BA), cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), solution focused brief therapy (SFBT) and solution focused hypnotherapy (SFH). Over nine years she has studied counselling and CBT psychotherapy to postgraduate level at the University of South Wales, completed a Diploma in Solution Focused Hypnotherapy at the Clifton Practice in Bristol, and trained as a bereavement counsellor with CRUSE.

As a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), Valerie follows their code of conduct, takes part in regular supervision of her practice, and remains committed to ongoing professional development.

Location: United Kingdom, United Kingdom
Years Experience: 9
Gender: Female
Languages Spoken: English
Therapist of Color: No
Communication Options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging
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Therapist Available Through: BetterHelp
Currently Accepting New Clients: Yes
Accepting International Clients: No

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  • License: BACP #260348 exp 2026-05-27

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How much experience does Valerie Harmer have?

Valerie Harmer has 9 years of experience providing therapy services.

In which languages does Valerie Harmer provide therapy?

Valerie Harmer provides therapy in English.

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Valerie Harmer is located in United Kingdom.

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