Rhonda Waller

Rhonda Waller is a licensed marriage and family therapist in California (CA LMFT 107844) with nine years of clinical experience, and she approaches healing as a relational process. She works from an attachment-focused, trauma-informed perspective, recognizing how early relationships shape the ways people connect with others and move through the world.

She has worked extensively with LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities and brings an appreciation for the strengths and challenges that come with navigating identity in environments that may feel unwelcoming. Rhonda supports individuals, couples, and polycules who are facing depression, anxiety, anger, adjustment difficulties, personality concerns, or addiction, meeting each person with respect for their resilience and capacity for growth.

As an EMDRIA-certified EMDR therapist, Rhonda specializes in processing traumatic experiences such as physical and sexual abuse, active shooter incidents, combat-related trauma, incarceration, chronic illness, and the complex wounds connected to gender and racial identity struggles. Her AASECT sex therapy training equips her to address intimate and sexual concerns for individuals and couples, including sexual pain and dysfunction, mismatched desire, communication barriers around sexuality, infidelity recovery, and the sexual effects of trauma or life transitions like infertility, adoption, or other major changes.

Rhonda emphasizes the connection between sexual and relational wellness and overall mental health, and she creates a non-judgmental space for exploring vulnerable aspects of life. Her aim is to help people build more secure connections with themselves and others so they can feel seen, understood, and increasingly free to embrace their authentic selves while cultivating deeper intimacy and fulfillment.