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Malahayati (Mala) Holland

Holistic Jungian therapist specializing in trauma and relationships

About

Play and Creative Arts therapy is not just for children!

When words alone are not enough, sometimes we need different ways to process and express how we feel. You can choose to talk or you can choose to do more creative activities (even if you don’t think are the creative arty type). Play therapy offers a powerful medium for working with adults with complex trauma because play addresses areas of social, emotional, and cognitive development compromised from chronic interpersonal trauma exposure.

Part of my work is with a non-profit organisation that provides mental health care support after disclosure of sexual abuse.

I have worked with individuals with a variety of concerns including family and attachment issues, depression, anxiety, trauma, self harm, bipolar disorder, self-esteem issues, and grief. In my experience, mental health symptoms are only one of many considerations in the treatment process. When working together, other considerations should be taken into account and that include physical health, safety, living situation, social support, finances, spirituality, and overall sense of well being. I’m passionate about attachment, connection, play, creativity and stories as part of a healthy being. I work collaboratively with individual client to determine their needs and to provide the best care possible.

My special interest is in working with Trauma and Attachment issues. Unbeknown to us, many of the challenges we face as adults stemmed from trauma or attachment issues we experience in our childhood. This can shape how we behave, make decisions and relate to other people.

Whether as a child or as an adult, we all need someone we can talk or be with to who is non-judgemental, reflective and honest. Someone who makes you feel safe enough to talk and safe enough to make the changes that you need.

Going to therapy or even considering one can feel momentous and many people may feel nervous, worried or shy. This is ok. Rest assured that your session will be safe and confidential. I may not be your best buddy, but I will be your strongest ally. Your story matters and I will help you see through your difficult moments, help you process what may appear uncomfortable and challenging, and help you find clarity and plan for your days ahead independently.

Years Experience: 4
Location: United Kingdom, United Kingdom
Accepting New Clients: No
Gender: Female
Accepting international clients: Yes
NPI Number:
Credentials:
Languages Spoken: English, Indonesian
Licenses: BACP #382150 exp 2026-01-16
List of Specialties: Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Parenting, Self esteem, Addictions, LGBT, Relationship, Family, Grief, Eating, Sleeping, Anger, Career, Depression, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Female therapist, Gay, Older, Non-religious, Liberal therapist
Where Can You Work With This Therapist: BetterHelp
Therapist of color: No
Communication options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging

Malahayati (Mala) Holland

Play-based trauma and attachment therapy
  • Trauma and attachment
  • Play and creativity
  • Collaborative therapy approach

Licensed · Professional · Cancel Anytime

About

Malahayati (Mala) Holland offers play and creative arts therapy that is designed for adults as well as children. When talking alone does not capture a person’s experience, she uses creative methods to help clients process and express feelings in different ways.

She works with adults who have experienced complex interpersonal trauma, using play-based approaches to address social, emotional, and cognitive areas that can be affected by chronic trauma exposure. Part of her practice includes work with a non-profit organisation that provides mental health care support after disclosure of sexual abuse.

Mala has supported people with a range of concerns, including family and attachment difficulties, depression, anxiety, trauma, self-harm, bipolar disorder, self-esteem challenges, and grief. She sees symptoms as one aspect of a person’s situation and takes into account other important factors such as physical health, safety, living arrangements, social support, financial circumstances, spirituality, and overall wellbeing when planning care.

Her clinical interest centres on trauma and attachment. She notes that many struggles which present in adulthood often have roots in early attachment experiences, and these patterns can influence behaviour, decision-making, and relationships.

Mala prioritises a collaborative working relationship, inviting clients to help shape their treatment so it fits their needs. She aims to be non-judgemental, reflective, and honest – a practitioner who provides safety to enable clients to explore difficult material and make the changes they want.

Sessions with Mala are conducted in a way that respects client safety and confidentiality. She draws on play, creativity and storytelling to help people gain clarity, work through uncomfortable or challenging material, and build plans for moving forward independently. Mala has 4 years of experience and is based in the United Kingdom.

Location: United Kingdom, United Kingdom
Years Experience: 4
Gender: Female
Languages Spoken: English, Indonesian
Therapist of Color: No
Communication Options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging
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Therapist Available Through: BetterHelp
Currently Accepting New Clients: No
Accepting International Clients: Yes

Credentials & Verification

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  • License: BACP #382150 exp 2026-01-16

Is Online Therapy the Right Fit for Your Needs?

Many people ask whether remote sessions really help. For common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or navigating life changes, online therapy has been shown to be comparable in effectiveness to traditional in-person therapy. A key benefit is flexibility – clients can choose the method of connection that suits them best, whether that is video calls, telephone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging. This flexibility often makes it easier to fit therapy into a busy life. Therapists offering online care are licensed professionals, and clients have the option to switch to a different therapist if they seek a different therapeutic fit. For many people, remote therapy provides an accessible, practical way to receive professional mental health support while maintaining continuity of care.

How much experience does Malahayati (Mala) Holland have?

Malahayati (Mala) Holland has 4 years of experience providing therapy services.

In which languages does Malahayati (Mala) Holland provide therapy?

Malahayati (Mala) Holland provides therapy in English and Indonesian.

Where is Malahayati (Mala) Holland located?

Malahayati (Mala) Holland is located in United Kingdom.

How can I work with Malahayati (Mala) Holland as my therapist?

You can work with Malahayati (Mala) Holland through Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging.

Does Malahayati (Mala) Holland work with international clients?

Malahayati (Mala) Holland does work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Malahayati (Mala) Holland cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist’s availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the ‘Start Therapy’ button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the ‘Start Therapy’ button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

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