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Lani Ete

Holistic Jungian therapist specializing in trauma and relationships

About

I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor. I began my college education in a humble town located in Hawaii where I was raised until the age of 21. I completed my undergraduate degree in psychology through distance learning and later earned my Master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling in 2007 from the University of Phoenix. I currently practice via online telehealth only and have done so since the beginning of the COVID pandemic.

My therapy approach is eclectic, meaning I combine different therapeutic approaches based on the presenting concerns and goals that are adapted to the needs of the person via the use of cognitive-behavioral, person-centered, brief therapy and solution-focused therapy with particular attention to the psychoanalytic processes, which emphasizes how life events and relationship experiences both past and present may be affecting your current issues and circumstances. What I can bring to the counseling environment to help you with this is a style that I believe to be approachable and warm so that my patients are able to 1) actively process and explore, 2) find their way, 3) learn about themselves and 4) grow to be directors of their life.

In short, to help you have the most successful experience in counseling it is important to me that we work together in establishing what your needs are and how I can be of most benefit to you. With that comes responsibility for your mental health and dedication of your time to your mental health needs. To be more specific, I ask that you not just do therapy sessions once a week for 30-45 minutes but that you have a proactive and committed intention of working on your mental health needs outside of therapy as well via homework that is completed in a timely manner as opposed to completing it right before your sessions; I need time to look over said homework and cannot do this effectively when it is sent back the day of.

I am genuinely interested in what brings you to therapy and hope that you would feel comfortable working with me as I look forward to working with you.

Lani

Years Experience: 17
Location: Utah, United States
Accepting New Clients: Yes
Gender: Female
Accepting international clients: Yes
NPI Number: 1255518080
Credentials: UT LCMHC 6831497-6004
Languages Spoken: English
Licenses: LCMHC (Utah) #6831497-6004 exp 2026-09-30
List of Specialties: Stress, Anxiety, Family, Trauma and abuse, Anger, Depression, Addictions, Relationship, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Sleeping, Parenting, Self esteem, Career, Bipolar, Coping with life changes, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Black therapist, Therapist of color, Female therapist, Older, Non-religious, Liberal therapist
Where Can You Work With This Therapist: BetterHelp
Therapist of color: Yes
Communication options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging

Lani Ete

Experienced telehealth counselor for life challenges
  • Telehealth sessions only
  • 17 years’ experience
  • Warm, practical approach

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About

Lani Ete is a licensed clinical mental health counselor practicing in Utah with 17 years of clinical experience. Raised in a small town in Hawaii until age 21, she completed her undergraduate degree in psychology through distance learning and went on to earn a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling in 2007 from the University of Phoenix.

She provides therapy exclusively via online telehealth and has maintained that practice model since the start of the COVID pandemic. Her approach to therapy is eclectic and tailored to each person’s needs, combining cognitive-behavioral techniques, person-centered methods, brief therapy, and solution-focused strategies, while paying particular attention to psychoanalytic processes that explore how past and present life events and relationship experiences may influence current concerns.

Lani aims to create an approachable and warm counseling environment where people can actively process and explore their experiences, gain insight, and grow to take greater direction of their lives. She emphasizes collaboration in setting goals and determining how therapy can be most helpful.

To get the most from counseling, Lani asks clients to take responsibility for their mental health by committing time and effort outside sessions. She prefers a proactive approach that includes completing between-session work in a timely manner so she has adequate time to review material prior to meetings, rather than receiving it immediately before a session.

She is genuinely interested in what brings people to therapy and looks forward to working with those who feel ready to engage in the process.

Location: Utah, United States
Years Experience: 17
Gender: Female
Languages Spoken: English
Therapist of Color: Yes
Communication Options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging
Ready To Start Your Journey?

Therapist Available Through: BetterHelp
Currently Accepting New Clients: Yes
Accepting International Clients: Yes

Credentials & Verification

  • Credentials: UT LCMHC 6831497-6004
  • NPI Number: 1255518080
  • License: LCMHC (Utah) #6831497-6004 exp 2026-09-30

Is Online Therapy the Right Step Toward Better Mental Health?

Many people wonder whether online therapy can truly help. For common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or adjusting to life changes, online therapy has been shown to be just as effective as traditional in-person sessions.

One of the main benefits is flexibility – clients can choose the mode of connection that fits their needs and schedule, whether through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging. This variety makes it easier to integrate therapy into a busy life.

All therapists involved are licensed professionals, and if someone feels they need a different fit, they can switch therapists at any time. For many people, online therapy offers a practical and effective way to address everyday mental health concerns while maintaining the convenience of remote access.

How much experience does Lani Ete have?

Lani Ete has 17 years of experience in providing therapy services.

Is Lani Ete a licensed therapist?

Yes, Lani Ete is a licensed therapist with UT LCMHC 6831497-6004.

In which languages does Lani Ete provide therapy?

Lani Ete provides therapy in English.

Where is Lani Ete located?

Lani Ete is located in Utah.

How can I work with Lani Ete as my therapist?

You can work with Lani Ete through Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging.

Does Lani Ete work with international clients?

Lani Ete does work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Lani Ete cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist’s availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the ‘Start Therapy’ button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the ‘Start Therapy’ button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

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