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Virginia Messina

Holistic Jungian therapist specializing in trauma and relationships

About

My name is Virginia, I am a UK-based therapist with a Foundation Degree in Counselling and Psychotherapy from the University of Central Lancashire (UCLan). I bring clinical experience from working in a domestic violence center supporting people who have faced relational trauma and abuse. My approach is rooted in person-centered therapy and mindfulness-based techniques.

I offer an authentic, direct and non-judgmental space where we can work deeply on issues such as grief and loss, dysfunctional relationships, codependency, domestic violence, emotional challenges and emotional regulation. I believe the therapeutic relationship is a living, transformative space, so it’s important to me that before we begin you get a clear sense of my style and decide if it fits what you are looking for.

I am a present and engaged therapist, sometimes provocative when needed, and I bring a touch of sarcasm and humor to the work — and yes, swearing is more than welcome here.

I work best with adults who have a strong desire to reconnect with their inner freedom , the freedom to consciously choose how to live, to understand their habitual patterns and to explore what feels authentic and healthy for them. Together we take shared responsibility to explore and clarify what truly works for you. This isn’t about quick fixes or ready-made answers but real, grounded support.

Creativity is always welcome here. Whether through art, poetry, music or other expressive forms these can be powerful ways to connect with your emotions and enrich our therapeutic journey.
I’m not the right fit for those looking to idealise their therapist, be saved or have their problems solved for them, yes, I’m human and I scroll my phone on the toilet too. My work is about building a mature relationship between adults based on mutual presence respect and a genuine desire to create meaningful and sustainable change.

Note for Italian clients I prefer to use the formal “Lei” to maintain a clear and respectful therapeutic frame.

Years Experience: 3
Location: United Kingdom, United Kingdom
Accepting New Clients: No
Gender: Female
Accepting international clients: No
NPI Number:
Credentials:
Languages Spoken: English, Italian
Licenses: NCPS #NCPS3093 exp 2026-10-21
List of Specialties: Relationship, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Self esteem, Coping with life changes, Stress, Anxiety, Family, Intimacy-related issues, Female therapist
Where Can You Work With This Therapist: BetterHelp
Therapist of color: No
Communication options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging

Virginia Messina

Direct, compassionate therapy for relational healing
  • Relationship and trauma focus
  • Mindfulness and person-centered
  • Creative expressive methods

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About

Virginia Messina is a UK-based therapist with a Foundation Degree in Counselling and Psychotherapy from the University of Central Lancashire (UCLan). She brings clinical experience from working in a domestic violence centre, supporting people who have experienced relational trauma and abuse.

Her practice is grounded in person-centred therapy combined with mindfulness-based techniques, and she offers an authentic, direct and non-judgmental space for focused therapeutic work. Virginia supports adults through grief and loss, dysfunctional relationships, codependency, domestic violence, emotional challenges and emotional regulation.

She is a present and engaged therapist who can be gently provocative when appropriate, and she often uses a touch of sarcasm and humour in sessions – swearing is more than welcome when it fits the work. Virginia works best with adults who want to reconnect with their inner freedom – the ability to choose how to live, to recognise habitual patterns, and to explore what feels authentic and healthy for them.

Together with clients she takes shared responsibility for exploring and clarifying what truly works, focusing on real, grounded support rather than quick fixes or ready-made answers. Creativity is welcomed in the therapeutic process, and art, poetry, music or other expressive forms may be used to help connect with emotions and enrich the journey.

Virginia is not the right fit for people looking to idealise their therapist, be saved, or have their problems solved for them. She aims to build a mature relationship between adults based on mutual presence, respect and a genuine desire to create meaningful and sustainable change.

For Italian clients she prefers to use the formal “Lei” to maintain a clear and respectful therapeutic frame.

Location: United Kingdom, United Kingdom
Years Experience: 3
Gender: Female
Languages Spoken: English, Italian
Therapist of Color: No
Communication Options: Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging
Ready To Start Your Journey?

Therapist Available Through: BetterHelp
Currently Accepting New Clients: No
Accepting International Clients: No

Credentials & Verification

  • Credentials:
  • NPI Number:
  • License: NCPS #NCPS3093 exp 2026-10-21

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One major advantage is flexibility – clients can connect in the way that suits them best, whether through video calls, phone sessions, live chat or in-app messaging. This range of options makes it easier to fit therapy into a busy life and to access support from wherever you are.

Therapists offering online services are licensed professionals, and clients may choose to switch therapists at any time if they would prefer a different fit. Online work can provide a practical, accessible route to consistent therapeutic support when needed.

How much experience does Virginia Messina have?

Virginia Messina has 3 years of experience providing therapy.

In which languages does Virginia Messina provide therapy?

Virginia Messina provides therapy in English and Italian.

Where is Virginia Messina located?

Virginia Messina is located in United Kingdom.

How can I work with Virginia Messina as my therapist?

You can work with Virginia Messina by Phone, Video, Live Chat or Messaging.

How much does therapy with Virginia Messina cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist’s availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the ‘Start Therapy’ button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is straightforward. Click the ‘Start Therapy’ button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with Virginia Messina. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

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