Ilaria Calussi

Ilaria Calussi is a systemic and relational psychotherapist whose practice is informed by extensive training in family therapy, gestalt therapy, trauma-informed CBT, therapeutic play, clinical supervision, and autism/ADHD specialist approaches. She adapts therapeutic work to the needs of individuals, couples, and families, drawing on a diverse clinical toolkit and an emphasis on relationships and context.

With 25 years of experience, Ilaria has worked in leading mental health organisations including Place2Be, Mind, Family Action, Social Care, and the NHS. Her roles have included managing school-based services and supervising children and families social care teams. She currently works at the National Autism Unit (NHS), supporting autistic people and their families, while also maintaining a private practice and lecturing in psychology and counselling at the Open University.

Ilaria supports couples, families, and individuals with issues such as relationship difficulties, attachment concerns, trauma and abuse, neurodiversity, gender and sexuality questions, parenting challenges, stress, and anxiety. Her approach is grounded in systemic and intersectional practice, integrating attachment theory, neuroscience, and creative methods to foster connection and change.

Her personal experiences of solo parenting, neurodivergence, and queer relationships inform a down-to-earth, empathetic style. Ilaria aims to provide a safe, supportive space where people can explore challenges, build resilience, and work towards meaningful change.