
Richard Whitenstall
Gestalt counsellor supporting men and LGBT clients
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Gestalt counsellor supporting men and LGBT clients
Start with Richard WhitenstallLicensed · Professional · Cancel Anytime
Based in the United Kingdom, Richard Whitenstall is a Gestalt counsellor with 11 years of clinical experience. He founded Get There Counselling in 2021 and, since 2023, has also worked with clients internationally through BetterHelp.
His counselling journey started in 2013 with placements at Hampshire charities No Limits and Cruse. Between 2017 and 2019 he established and ran a counselling service for Positive21, a London-based charity, building practical delivery experience in community settings.
Richard co-authored Strength to Talk, a book focused on men’s mental health, with all proceeds donated to the charity Mind. He has additional experience as a project worker supporting LGBT young people who are at risk of sexual exploitation, domestic abuse, and neglect. A notable career moment came in 2014 when he presented at the CAMHS County Forum to help mental health professionals better understand risks faced by LGBT youth.
His clinical interests include men’s issues, anxiety, relationship challenges, depression, stress, and grief. He also produces and co-hosts the podcast It’s Not You, It’s Them, which aims to encourage open conversations about mental health and personal growth.
Richard’s approach is client-centred and empowering - he works at a pace that suits each person, concentrates on the changes they want to make, helps accept what cannot be changed, and collaborates to create a plan for what can. Thank you for visiting. Taking steps toward change can feel daunting, but you do not have to do it alone.
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