Mary Gates
Compassionate, evidence-based therapy for life’s toughest seasons
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About
Mary Gates is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with over 20 years of experience supporting people through a wide range of emotional and life challenges. She is licensed in Oklahoma and Colorado, and she brings a steady, compassionate presence to therapy for concerns such as depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship or family dynamics.
Her work often focuses on the patterns that can leave people feeling stuck, including communication difficulties, social anxiety, and the isolation that can build over time. Mary also helps clients reconnect with a sense of direction and life purpose, especially during periods of transition or when stress and overwhelm have made it harder to feel grounded.
Mary’s style is empathetic, collaborative, and tailored to the individual. She draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients develop practical strategies for emotional wellness while also honoring each person’s strengths and lived experience. She is committed to providing an affirming, non-judgmental space, with a particular dedication to supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and older adults as they work toward resilience, clarity, and meaningful change.
Her work often focuses on the patterns that can leave people feeling stuck, including communication difficulties, social anxiety, and the isolation that can build over time. Mary also helps clients reconnect with a sense of direction and life purpose, especially during periods of transition or when stress and overwhelm have made it harder to feel grounded.
Mary’s style is empathetic, collaborative, and tailored to the individual. She draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients develop practical strategies for emotional wellness while also honoring each person’s strengths and lived experience. She is committed to providing an affirming, non-judgmental space, with a particular dedication to supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and older adults as they work toward resilience, clarity, and meaningful change.
- Location:
- Oklahoma, United States
- Years Experience:
- 20
- Gender:
- Female
- Languages Spoken:
- English
- Therapist of Color:
- No
- Communication Options:
- Phone • Video • Live Chat • Messaging
Specialties
Primary area of focus:Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Depression
Other areas of experience: Communication problems, Isolation / loneliness, Life purpose, Post-traumatic stress
Credentials & Verification
- Credentials: CO LPC LPC.0005033, OK LPC 10474
- NPI Number: 1912131996
- License: LPC (Oklahoma), LPC (Colorado)
Evidence-Based Support, Made Accessible Through Online Therapy
Mary Gates uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help clients work through concerns like anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship or family stress. In practice, this means using structured, research-informed methods that focus on building skills, strengthening coping strategies, and creating workable steps toward emotional wellness.Her approach is also collaborative and tailored, with attention to communication patterns, social anxiety, and the impact of isolation or life transitions. Therapy can include exploring what keeps difficult cycles going, learning ways to respond differently in the moment, and reconnecting with personal strengths and a sense of purpose over time.
Because people and situations differ, finding the right style of therapy is part of the process. Mary works with clients to clarify goals, identify what feels most helpful, and adjust the pace and focus based on preferences and needs. Licensed professionals often blend techniques to match the person, not the other way around.
Online therapy adds flexibility and access, especially when schedules are full or in-person options are limited. Sessions with Mary can take place through video calls or phone sessions, and clients can also use live chat or text-based messaging to stay connected and supported between appointments.
How much experience does Mary Gates have?
Mary Gates has 20 years of experience as a therapist.
Is Mary Gates a licensed therapist?
Yes. Mary Gates is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). She holds an Oklahoma LPC license (10474) and a Colorado LPC license (LPC.0005033).
In which languages does Mary Gates provide therapy?
Mary Gates provides therapy in English.
Where is Mary Gates located?
Mary Gates is located in Oklahoma.
How can I work with Mary Gates as my therapist?
You can work with Mary Gates through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, depending on what feels most comfortable and what is available.
Does Mary Gates work with international clients?
No. Mary Gates does not currently work with international clients.
How much does therapy with Mary Gates cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the “Start Therapy” button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the “Start Therapy” button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.